Dale Cresap's blog

Some soldiers perform feats of such valor in combat that they receive decorations. These are considered great honors and presented in ceremonies with great acclaim. What do you think was going through the minds of those when they did the feats that earned such honors? It wasn’t the recognition to follow. In the moment they probably thought they were having the worst day of their lives. You may have never received such recognition or even served in the military but the same principle still applies.

Do you know that I can do anything? So what do you ask me for? What do you pray for? I have written you a ‘blank check’ in the sense that I have promised in advance that you can have anything you ask for. Do you prefer to pray that your situation would change or that you would change? Most people would prefer that their circumstances would improve rather than that they would learn grace through them. But which is more important, and which of these is more closely aligned with the purpose of your life?

Most people can do arithmetic. Some people can solve high order non-linear partial differential equations. These are all mathematical operations, but some are at a higher level than others. Do you see a spiritual parallel? I am prepared to receive those who make any gesture in my direction, but some are more serious and highly motivated for spiritual formation than others. Everyone is free to choose and follow his own path.

Do you like to boast? You may find this quality tedious in other people, but who can resist passing along information that reflects favorably on them? Even Paul couldn’t resist presenting his credentials although the account is interspersed with his apologies and chagrin for doing so. Would you rather boast about your achievements, or the things you have suffered, or the things that have transformed you? Paul mentions all three, but declares himself a fool for bringing up the first two, and comparing himself to others.

Do you ever get sore muscles? How do you treat them? Most people will intuitively stretch a muscle that is tight or cramped. They will do this even though the stretching is uncomfortable. It is beneficial for the body and serves to restore proper function and range of motion. Have you ever been “stretched” in ways other than physical? Did you seek out these opportunities or did they come to you? Athletes, dancers, and others who take physical performance seriously are smart to do intentional stretching even if it hurts.

What do you do when you come together for worship? Do you join together to engage in deliberate intentional practices that honor me? Do you come to meet with me? Do you desire my presence? Yet there is nothing you can do to make this happen. The wind blows where it will and you cannot control it. I come and go as I please as you do. Yet I am drawn to you as you are drawn to me. If you seek me I will find you. Seek me with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and I will come to your meeting and inhabit your intentional practices with transcendent presence and divine glory.

Do you hold contempt for other faiths? You accept the truth claims of your own faith and reject those of others, but you can do this in a gracious and loving way. Contempt like bitterness is a characteristic of the one expressing it, not of its intended target. Consider my own example. I was Jewish, but I lived in a culture in which many faiths were practiced. On rare occasions I would affirm the claims of my own faith relative to others, but did I ever hold them in contempt? I invite you to follow my example.

Do you go to a church with a printed order of worship? Some churches use these, and others do not, but in nearly every case there is an agenda planned in advance by someone whether it is printed or not. Have you ever seen a printed service bulletin with an entry that says, at this point in the service the Holy Spirit takes over and we don’t know what will happen after that. Have you ever been in a service where this happened? Even if you can’t arrange this in advance you should consider it to be desirable and be prepared to abandon your planned sequence order when it occurs.

Do you know the difference between wishing and hoping? Hope looks forward and is based on the expectation of fulfillment. Wishing is an expression of preference that can be disconnected from reality. You may wish that things had been different in the past, but you have no hope for that. Wishful thinking has a negative connotation, but being hopeful does not. You may note that hope is a Biblical concept while wishing is not. You don’t know what the future holds, but you can have hope for the future since you know the one who holds the future, and this isn’t just wishful thinking.

When you have a dispute with your brother, or with anyone for that matter, how do you address it with him? My word tells you to go to your brother directly (rather than to everyone else). This is a good start. What then? Do you lead with your strong points and point out the errors in his ways? You would do better to acknowledge your opponents strong points and the weaknesses in your own positions. Why is this? Your opponent already knows these things, and this is his position.