Dale Cresap's blog

Have you heard of burning your bridges? Have you ever done it? This implies dealing with an offense in such a way that reconciliation is impossible, not only today, but forever. How do you think I feel about this? You know how I feel about reconciliation. If your brother has anything against you go and be reconciled to your brother before you bring your offering to me. If you must have closure let it be in a positive sense. You do not know what tomorrow will bring. Even if you cannot deal with your brother today, don’t make it impossible to be reconciled to your brother tomorrow.

Do you have a strong sense of identity? What does it consist of? The search for identity is inherent in the human condition. I placed it within you. Have you noticed how many people identify with their favorite team, or fictional characters in stories, or their car, or house, or what they wear, or how they earn their living? Yet all of these things are chosen rather than inherent. Are they expressions of your true identity? All could be altered or done away with. Some are tenuous connections and some are imaginary.

Do you expect to get a reward in heaven? What would you expect? Money? Recognition? There are descriptions of extravagant wealth, but that will not be as meaningful a concept to you there as it is here. What is your reward in this life for following me? Don’t you describe your faith as a relationship with me? Wouldn’t you describe your friendships here as more enriching, satisfying, and fulfilling than anything monetary? Do you see your friendship with me as better than any other? So the relationship itself is the reward, and you don’t have to wait for heaven to get it.

Do you have an answer for everything? Is it reasonable to expect this from anyone? I have called you to have an answer for the hope that lies within you, but this is not the same thing and is not nearly so ambitious as having an answer for everything. Do you understand that you are engaged with an infinite divine mystery? Do you know that it is OK to admit that there are things you don’t understand? Why do believers so readily accept the premise that they must be able to answer every question? Witnesses can only testify to what they have experienced firsthand.

Are you familiar with the story of the wheat and the tares? Wheat is valuable and tares are weeds. The workers volunteered to remove the tares immediately, but the master was concerned that the wheat would be damaged in the process, so they were allowed to grow together and separated at the time of harvest. How eager are you to judge those things that need to be removed and condemned? I’m willing to be patient and allow them to grow side by side. There is another reason for this besides the concern for damage to the growing crop. In the economy of my kingdom tares can become wheat.

What do you see as the purpose of your faith? Do you see yourself as a human trying to be spiritual, as the lesser trying to gain greater stature? Is it possible that you have it backwards? You are inherently spiritual because you are made in my image. Do you see your spiritual quest as a means for improving your humanity? You do spiritual activities to help others and support your church, but I have offered you and called you to transformation. If you become more loving it will make you a better person, and be noticed and appreciated by believer and unbeliever alike.

Do you have answers for all your questions? Are you uncomfortable having unanswered questions? How eager are you to accept the first answer that comes along to resolve this discomfort? Have you ever accepted an answer that you later found to be wrong because you were too quick to resolve the issue? It is better to have no answer than to be convinced of the wrong answer. Learn to be patient with your questions. You can live with them, and walk with them as friends.

Are you grateful for the blessings I bestow upon you? Can you see my hand in the events of your daily life, and offer thanks? Have you encountered people who object, saying that my intervention in the minor details of your life pales in comparison to the suffering of multitudes and calls into question my goodness and impartiality? There are two issues here. You have not been called to be an arbiter of cosmic justice.

Do you see your life as an ongoing journey? This implies progress through a series of waypoints along the way. Your understanding of truth should always be open to growth and refinement. How do you respond to intermediate levels of understanding when you acquire greater truth? Some people spend the rest of their lives in reaction against immature levels of understanding, but this is itself immature. Take what was good from your journey so far and move forward, realizing that this is part of the process.

I asked you to follow me, and walking in my footsteps is a matter of imitating my life. If you do this you will start to look like me. So does my image that you present to those who encounter you look like me or you? John the Baptist declared that he must decrease that I might increase. He knew that there was too much of himself present for him to represent me well, but his willingness to decrease made room for a fuller expression of me in him. He who seeks to increase his own life will lose it, but he who loses his life for my sake will find it.