suffering
Do you hate suffering and make a diligent effort to avoid anything unpleasant or uncomfortable? Do you understand that in so doing you may be opposing my work in your life? Have you considered those who have suffered great difficulties and yet borne it graciously? Can you see the high refinement of character in them? This is not attainable any other way. The same principles that worked in their lives apply to you too. I hold you in my hand at all times, but especially when you suffer, and I will not permit you to be afflicted more than you can bear. Do not oppose my work in your life.