Gentlemen
Have you ever heard of all men referred to as gentlemen, as an announcer would say, ‘Ladies and Gentlemen’? Yet not all men are gentle. In a coarse culture there are no clearly defined standards but here is a general rule. Women and children feel safe around a man who is truly gentle. This is not based on a list of manners or externally observed conduct but is more a matter of discernment of intent and character. Children in particular are sensitive to such things. They seem to know when loud and boisterous men can be trusted and when those who give the appearance of being calm and reserved cannot. Children were drawn to me. If my life is manifested in you they will be drawn to you as well.