Dale Cresap's blog

Have you ever played soccer? One person on each team is designated as the goalie, and it is the responsibility of the goalie to deflect shots at the goal. Even if you haven’t played soccer, have you ever encountered hostile or toxic words or thoughts? You could think of this the same way; that you need to deflect these things lest they be trapped in your net. David expressed the same concept as being a doorkeeper. The doorkeeper regulates admission; letting in those who are welcome and keeping out those who are undesirable.

Do you have money to invest? If you do, then you will find more investment opportunities available than you can respond to so you have to be selective in the way you allocate your resources. Even if you don’t have money for investment, you have a budget for emotional investment, and this too is a finite supply. You don’t want to go broke emotionally, so you have to be selective in your emotional investments. There are plenty of opportunities for outrage and injustices in the world and you can’t do justice to all of them at once.

Do you live in a democracy? You are fortunate if you live in a place where you have basic freedoms and even a voice in your own government. Do you require this to lead your life of faith? Are you aware that I lived in a country occupied by a foreign power, and the Bible was written under these circumstances? Yet it still teaches you to be subject to governing authority. My primary message was the Kingdom of God, and when I was asked by the civil authorities I said that my Kingdom was not of this world. What does your faith require to thrive? Does it need a favorable government?

Do you live in a democracy? You are fortunate if you live in a place where you have basic freedoms and even a voice in your own government. Do you require this to lead your life of faith? Are you aware that I lived in a country occupied by a foreign power, and the Bible was written under these circumstances? Yet it still teaches you to be subject to governing authority. My primary message was the Kingdom of God, and when I was asked by the civil authorities I said that my Kingdom was not of this world. What does your faith require to thrive? Does it need a favorable government?

I told a story about two houses, one built on rock and one built on sand. Do you understand that this was not really a story about architecture and building construction? Are you fragile? Is your life built on a foundation that will weather the storm? Houses can be destroyed by fire, earthquake, flood, and storm, but also by neglect. You don’t need to make exact parallels for each of these to realize that the foundation of your life matters, and that the structure of it can be threatened from multiple sources, within and without. So what does it mean to build your life on the rock?

Are you ever tempted to seek revenge? Yet you know that vengeance is mine, and I will repay. This implies that you shouldn’t seek revenge yourself. Do you take comfort in the thought that I have more powerful resources at my disposal for vengeance than you do, and can do a better job? But what if I do not deploy these to your satisfaction? What if I show mercy where you would not? Will you criticize me for doing an inadequate job? Perhaps you should use my performance to evaluate your own intentions. If I display a bias for mercy then shouldn’t you prefer it as well?

Do you practice a robust faith? Is it hard to break, and able to resist challenges from without? What about challenges from within? Do you ever have doubts, or struggle to maintain your belief in the central doctrines of your church? Do your church and the world outside seem like two separate realms? Yet you have a foot in both worlds. Does your church strengthen your faith by challenging it, by teaching you how to deal with the dry and desolate times that come to all, and how to deal with your doubts?

Have you ever gone fishing for compliments? Have you ever caught any? Everyone likes approval, but if you go looking for it you can put people in an awkward position and calls into question the sincerity of the compliments you get. This is a characteristic of an insecure person who can be controlled by those offering false flattery. Don’t give others undue influence over you by depending on their approval. You may not get as many compliments if you do not solicit them, but if your identity is secure then you don’t need as many, and those you receive spontaneously will be sincere.

What does the concept of spirituality make you think of? The doctrines of your church? The words of a creed? All people are created in my image and on this basis alone all are spiritual, so you may consider a broader definition, which can be applied to everyone. Can you view the spirituality of a person as the basic way they orient themselves toward that which is beyond them? There is a large gap between that and what you consider to be essential faith. But I promised that those who seek the truth would hear my voice. If they keep seeking they will get there.

Are you quick to form your first reaction to situations you encounter? Are your first reactions full of mercy, grace, and love, or they more judgmental? Your reactionary brain is eager to provide answers and make connections that are immediate and wrong. Have you found that it takes intentional effort to stay engaged and take a more gracious look, and think of more benign explanations for what you see? So if you stay engaged, you can come up with more than one explanation. Which one is correct? Do not assume that you need to resolve every issue.