accommodation?
Are you a master of accommodation? You may not describe yourself this way, but this is an accurate description of nearly everyone you meet whether you use this terminology or not. You have an intense longing for connection whether you recognize it or not. You would like to be recognized and accepted for who you really are, but the desire is so strong that you will find a way whether it is congruent with the truth of your being or not. Have you ever found yourself adjusting your behavior, mannerisms, and what you say to conform to a group for acceptance even if it wasn’t your true identity? You may even have to do this in your church but you don’t have to do it with me.