Dale Cresap's blog

Are you curious and inquisitive? When you talk to other people, are you more eager to hear their stories or to tell them yours? Have you ever had a one-way conversations that was lopsided and left you feeling frustrated from being unheard? Have you ever done this to someone else? You learn from listening to other people, but you have the need to be heard yourself. You can express interest in others by asking questions. Do you see this as doing them a favor? When they ask a question of you it may be their way of suggesting that you ask them about the same topic.

Are you afraid of being vulnerable? Do you avoid vulnerability as an experience of weakness? The alternative is to be defended. This provides you a hedge against risk and exposure. This may give you a sense of security against attack, but what else does it defend you from? Vulnerability is necessary for growth and transformation. If you avoid it you are defending yourself against your own progress. Do you see vulnerability as an attractive quality in other people or as weakness? Do you find defensiveness as an attractive quality in others?

Do you watch the news? Do you do this to be informed and aware? Are there any other reasons or side effects? For the reporting of the news includes drama, sensationalism, and a source of outrage. Long ago people had very limited access to information. Since you do not face this limit, are you being a wise consumer of that which is available to you? Do you have an eternal perspective from which to assess the value of the information available to you? You understand that a container must be large enough for its contents.

Did you choose to follow me? Or did I choose you? Who chose whom? You pursue your faith with diligence and intention, as well you should. You present the message of the gospel as if your audience had the option to say yes or no. But was it your idea to start down this path, or were you chosen for it? This would appear to be a true dichotomy, but could both aspects be true at once?  In the military a commander can give orders to his troops as he wishes, but in some cases he will ask for volunteers. He will typically choose those who step forward to volunteer.

Do you believe in progress? What do you think it consists of? Does the term make you think of the latest electronic gadget? It began much earlier. The rise of agriculture allowed the development of cities. Mechanized agriculture, fertilizer, and irrigation allowed the development of very large cities. And so population and affluence have grown. What other sorts of progress can you think of? Knowledge has increased, so more things are known, and this information is available to more and more people. What about spiritual progress? Has it kept up with these other areas?

Do you look for my return? I promised to return and you can count on this, but the wait is longer than anyone expected. What are you to do in the meanwhile? For you do not know when your master will return. I told a story about a master who went on a long journey and left his servants to take care of the place in his absence. The story implies that there was enough time for the servants to run successful businesses. Are you doing this? You can apply the principle of the story to your own life.

Are you serious about standing fast in the liberty in which I have made you free? To what end? For I also told you to lay down your life and pick up your cross and follow me, to die daily, to be the servant of all. Do these visions seem to be in conflict? There is a resolution that satisfies both conditions. You are indeed called to be a servant of all, and I have given you the liberty to do this. Therefore you should steadfastly oppose any constraint that would interfere with your ability to serve others.

Do you think listening is the same as not talking? But you can remain silent and ignore people. Isn’t it blatantly obvious when people are paying attention to you and when they are not? True listening is a very intensive and demanding activity. It requires full empathetic engagement, and identifying with the emotional content of the story you are hearing. Have you ever had anyone pay attention to you at this level? How did it feel? Most people have nothing more to offer than clouded or distracted presence.

Do you see the practice of your faith as a journey or a destination? Everyone uses the terminology of journey, but does the life you lead reflect this concept more than destination? You accepted certain premises when you first believed. Have you added to these? Have you added things and later reconsidered and let them go? Revelation is the process of revealing. Are you receiving revelation on a regular basis? This is living water and the bread of life that you need for nourishment even as you need food to sustain your body, because man does not live by bread alone.

Do you think that you are just making up the things that you imagine? When you express a concern to someone have you ever been told that you are just imagining it? This is a dismissive rather than an affirmative statement. Yet everything you do or make or say exists in your mind before it is a manifested reality. Can imagination be sanctified?  I promised that my sheep would hear my voice. How do you hear from me? Do you assume that every thought you have originates within you? Have you ever had thoughts that came to you that didn’t belong to the usual sequence of flow?